The word goes missing because oestrogen supports the brain's word retrieval, its energy supply and the growth signal that keeps connections quick, and in perimenopause it swings rather than falls. Retrieval slows, and nothing is lost. It tracks broken sleep and blood sugar, it is worse before a period, and it is not the beginning of dementia.
Oestradiol is a brain hormone before it is a reproductive one. It drives the enzyme that makes serotonin, it switches on the gene for BDNF, the protein that keeps neurons connected and quick to form new links, and it regulates how the brain takes up glucose, its main fuel. In perimenopause it does not decline smoothly. It spikes and crashes, sometimes higher than it has ever been one week and low the next, and each of those three systems follows it.
The word that vanishes is the BDNF layer. Word finding is a retrieval task, and imaging shows the retrieval regions working harder and slower in perimenopausal women. The word is in there. You find another route to it, or it arrives an hour later, which is exactly what storage failure does not do. The fog that lifts with food, or lands at 3pm, is the fuel layer: brain glucose metabolism dips through the transition and re-stabilises in the years after the final period.
And the fog that follows a bad night is the sleep layer. Deep sleep is when the brain consolidates memory and clears the day's waste, and the 3am wake shortens exactly that stage. Many women's worst fog days are the mornings after their worst nights. That is the signal you are watching the sleep mechanism, not a degenerative one.
The usual causesoestrogen swinging, not fallingthe 3am wakea blood sugar crash after lunchan untested thyroidlow iron, B12 or vitamin Da week of being on all day